How to Hold a Grudge: From Resentment to Contentment―The Power of Grudges to Transform Your Life

How to Hold a Grudge: From Resentment to Contentment―The Power of Grudges to Transform Your Life

272 pages
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Published: 1 Jan 2019
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ISBN: 9781982111427

Format: Hardcover

Language: English

Publisher: Scribner

Publication date: 1 January 2019

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The first and only comprehensive examination of the universal but widely misunderstood practice of grudge-holding that will show you how to use grudges to be your happiest, most optimistic, and most forgiving self. Shouldn’t we just forgive and move on? Wrong, says self-appointed grudge guru Sophie Hannah, in her groundbreaking and irreverent self-help guide. Yes, it’s essential to think positively if we want to live happy lives, but even more crucial is how we get to the positive. Denying our negative emotions and experiences is likely to lead only to more pain, conflict, and stress.

With contributions from expert psychotherapists as well as extracts from her own extensive catalog of grudges, Sophie Hannah investigates the psychological origins of grudges and also offers not-so-obvious insights into how we should acknowledge—and embrace—them in order to improve the quality of our interpersonal relationships and senses of self. happier people—for our own benefit and for the sake of spreading good and limiting harm in the world.